When we encounter a potential threat, our bodies go into "fight or flight" mode, spiking adrenaline and cortisol. While this is a natural survival response, chronic fear is bad for our vascular health.
However, in this specific moment, fear is actually useful if it leads to action. The goal is not to panic, but to be alert. By knowing this trick exists, you bypass the panic and go straight to a smart, safe solution. Protecting your physical safety is the ultimate form of self-care.
The "Avocado Lover's" Smart Safety Protocol
Since I have a strong personal preference for avocados and incorporate them into almost every single aspect of my life (even though my children absolutely do not share my liking for them, which just means I get to enjoy the whole, glorious batch all to myself!), I also have a very specific protocol for staying safe when I am out running errands.
I don't let fear rule me, but I do let wisdom guide me. Here is my go-to 3-Step Safety Ritual if I ever hear a strange noise or see something suspicious on my car:
Step 1: Do NOT Stop Immediately
If you hear a crunching noise right after you start driving, do not pull over right away. Keep driving slowly and calmly.
- Why? If the bottle falls out on its own as you drive, the noise will stop, and you will know it was a prank. If the noise continues, it confirms something is stuck, but you are still safe inside your locked vehicle.
Step 2: Drive to a Safe Location
Drive directly to a well-lit, populated area. A gas station, a grocery store parking lot, a police station, or a busy coffee shop.
- Why? Criminals rely on isolation. They want you to stop on a quiet street. By moving to a crowd, you remove their advantage.
Step 3: Investigate with Eyes, Not Hands
Once you are in a safe, public place, put your car in park but stay inside with the doors locked. Look out your window to see if you can spot the object.
- Why? If you see a bottle or object, do not get out to remove it yourself if you feel uneasy. Call for help, or ask a store employee or security guard to assist you.
My Farmhouse Pro-Tips for Car Safety
You don’t need to live in fear, but a little preparation goes a long way! Here are my gentle, no-fuss rules for staying safe on the road:
✅ Lock Your Doors: It sounds simple, but always lock your doors as soon as you get in the car, even if you are just driving to the end of the block.
✅ Trust Your Gut: If something feels "off" about a parking spot or a situation, leave. Your intuition is a powerful, God-given safety mechanism.
✅ Keep Your Phone Charged: Always make sure you have a way to call for help if you need it.
✅ Park Smart: Whenever possible, park in well-lit areas close to building entrances. Avoid dark, isolated corners of parking lots.
A Beautiful Reminder of Empowerment
I truly hope this alert brings you clarity and a profound sense of empowerment. It is so important to know that we are not helpless. By simply knowing this trick exists and having a plan in place, we take the power away from the criminals and keep it for ourselves.
Knowledge is not meant to scare us; it is meant to arm us with wisdom. By staying alert, trusting our instincts, and prioritizing our safety, we ensure that we can continue to enjoy our independence, run our errands, and live our lives with peace of mind.
Please, share this information with your children, your grandchildren, and your friends. We must look out for one another.
